While chastity may seem for many people like something rough and not very enjoyable, there are still a whole bunch of benefits that can come from taking part in it. Some of these benefits are purely physical and will change the way you experience sex, but others are a bit more psychological and are able to have a significant impact on your relationship and make it better. Instead of making all-embracing statements though, let’s dive deeper into this subject and take a closer look at the benefits of male chastity.
Benefits of Male Chastity
Chastity is not only about submission and orgasm denial and there can be some tangible benefits for men who practice it, though some of them won’t apply to everyone. It might be surprising, but male chastity can actually help if you suffer from premature ejaculation. When receiving stimulation from your key holder, but at the same time being told that you aren’t allowed to have an orgasm, you have to exercise great amounts of control over yourself to make sure you don’t finish. By frequently practicing this sort of control at the command of your key holder, you will be able to strengthen the muscles involved in orgasm and learn to determine when you are going to have an orgasm. This can take you from being someone who can orgasm at the slightest touch, to being able to keep going all night long, only orgasming when you are done.
Another benefit of male chastity is the ability to have much more intense orgasms. Having to withstand long periods of time without having an orgasm, or enduring orgasm denial will allow for a lot of sexual tension to develop inside you. And when you finally are able to release this tension, the resulting orgasm will be quite explosive. Besides, some of the restriction and power dynamics in a sexual relationship involving chastity can considerably strengthen that relationship, since by giving over the full control of the penis to your partner, you will be displaying huge amounts of trust in them. There also have to be great amounts of communication among the two of you, in order to make sure no one is going too far.
All of these elements are quite important in sexual relationships, and by placing yourself in a more extreme kind of situation, you will test these things to the maximum. And if everything goes fine, even in case you decide to stop your chastity lifestyle, the relationship should still be a lot stronger for you.
It won't matter if you’re in a relationship or not if you want a chastity cage
Some men who want to try chastity are not in a relationship though, but even for them, there can still be some benefits too. For instance, many men can choose to give one of the keys to a trusted keyholder or a keyholding service, and by doing so, they will be completely out of control of their chastity, which is supposed to take a lot of pressure off. Being able to have this release can be very beneficial to your mental health since you can truly sit back, relax and enjoy the experience.
An unexpected benefit to using a chastity cage can be to balance the sex drive within a relationship. Frequently a man might notice that his sex drive is way higher than his partner’s and that can create quite a lot of irritation in the relationship. If you would start wearing a cage, it is not uncommon to observe the man’s sex drive go down significantly, which in turn can make sex much more pleasing to his partner.
Why Do Men Participate in Male Chastity?
Men all over the globe are enjoying male chastity for a whole bunch of different reasons. Some of these reasons can be pretty simple, like curiosity, but others though might be driven by some complex and unique factors. Quite often you could also come across couples who are trying to get into this kind of relationship, but it is not really working. Usually, this is because the man does not truly want to do it, and instead, it is something his partner is way more interested in. In the end, the most correct answer would be that a man is participating in chastity just because he wants to.
What is a chastity cage made out of?
It will depend on the cage, and usually, they are made from several different materials. The list of the most popular and best-selling materials will include stainless steel - a shiny, polished, silver metal that is cold to the touch and pretty heavy, silicone, which is soft and smooth just like human skin, and resin, which is a slightly harder, stronger and more durable alternative to the silicone, and is also available in multi-colored options. Which chastity cage material will be best for you depends on what kind of sensations and textures you want to have against the skin of your penis. If you are not sure what exactly you want, try buying a few different products and testing them all out.
How should I wear the chastity cage?
You should start by putting on your chastity cage very carefully in order to make sure that it fits properly and is not uncomfortable against your penis. If you decide to get a chastity belt instead, make sure to adjust both of its straps - the first around your waist and the second running between your legs - to be certain that they are not too relaxed or too tight. On the other hand, in case a chastity cage is more fitting to you, first, secure the ring firmly around the balls and then gently slide your penis into the cage or the tube-shaped part. Once your chastity cage is on and fits correctly, have your partner lock you up with the key. Now you can take a walk around the room and make sure everything is fixing and fitting comfortably enough, and if needed make any necessary adjustments to it. That is all, you are now locked up securely inside your brand new chastity cage.
